Wednesday, February 14, 2007

Snow


The weather forecast actually came true and I was able to follow through on my plan to work from home today. Most of the snow didn’t fall overnight. The biggest accumulation happened during the day and I was able to watch it come down from the plush window seat I am denied at the office but allow myself at home. The midweek variety was a treat. The first blizzard of the year is an event, but as others around the state will concur, it gets old long before the accumulation reaches four feet. It looks like all we are going to get is another four inches.

I went out with Syd for her first real experience playing in the snow. She didn’t take to it at first, but once I started making snowballs and hitting the house she started to see the possibilities. Her personality is a mix of girly girl and bravado and I hope she continues to grow into that.

Today was so out of the ordinary that I ended up having to do the opposite of what I typically do on Fridays. I had to remind myself that I have to go to work tomorrow. What a buzzkill. One of the best parts of my week is a moment that happens on a Friday evening when I’m engaged in the middle of something and instantly the realization fires in my brain that “I don’t have to go to work tomorrow.” The narrative thought is exactly those eight words – I don’t have to go to work tomorrow. But before my brain assigns words to it, I am just overcome with an instant of total relief. The cool part about the whole thing is that sometimes if I’m just home on a Friday and I’m making dinner or the evening just has a midweek sort of feel to it, this realization can hit me two or three times. And unlike heroin (or so I’ve heard) it feels just as great the third time as it did the first time. On the flip side when there is a snowstorm and I’m working at home in my sweats and the day has a special sort of Friday feeling to it I have to tell myself, “You have to go to work tomorrow, and the day after that too you schmuck.”

4 comments:

dugandog said...

Her bravado is exemplified in the fact that she's not wearing any mittens in a negative 15 degree windchill!

Anonymous said...

. . . while her derelict father is making snow angels on his precious snow day.

Anonymous said...

“Her personality is a mix of girly girl and bravado and I hope she continues to grow into that.”

Please save this quote for when Syd is 16 and her mix of “girly girl and bravado” has our Saturday Boy at wits end on occasion.

Zobes said...

Syd is wearing pink mittens.

I meant to describe her as liking girly things but not being a passive person. It comes out in her enthusiasm to participate in things, whether it is playing in the snow or swimming or climbing or whatever. I think that a lot of the messages that girls get are about being passive, to worry about how you look or what you have more than focusing on what you do. I think girls who play sports and do what they love to do regardless of how it fits into whatever image is being sold to them are much happier and healthier people.

Instead of "Bravado" I guess I meant to say "Aplomb!"